live. love. laugh.

There are boys, and then Men who are rare to have.

My thought for today was all about the difference between a man and a boy. Well for obvious reflection, I immediately without hesitation reply to myself that a Man will never disrespect a woman in any way while a Boy would do the rather opposite and make things worse, he would put her down so bad. I’ve had my share of boys in my life, never had a man yet. Still waiting actually.

I always thought that i was too old for my age, too matured but I’m now. I’m acting my age and maybe i seem matured in some ways is because I’ve gone through so much in life, mostly in my teens. Things happen, good things, bad things but it’s your choice of learning from triumphs and mistakes, making things better than it already is or fixing something that would lead to a better outcome. I’ve had my fair share of happiness, depression, sadness, love, deceit, lies, surprises but never never once have i regretted the things that have happen to me. A wise person once said to me that regretting things in life, is like telling yourself to erase a memory that can be a factor that makes yourself, YOU.

so lets end this post by seeing whats the difference between a man and a boy.

Boys are students: Men are teachers

Boys are consumers: Men are producers

Boys play with toys: Men work with tools

Boys break things: Men make things

Boys ask questions: Men give answers

Boys are disruptive: Men bring order

Boys run in gangs: Men organize teams

Boys play house: Men build homes

Boys shack up: Men get married

Boys make babies: Men raise children

A boy won’t raise his own children: A man will raise his and somebody else’s

Boys invent excuses for failure: Men produce strategies for success

Boys look for somebody to take care of them: Men look for somebody to take care of

Boys are present-centered; Men are time-balanced, having knowledge of the past and understanding of the present and a vision for the future

Boys seek popularity: Men demand respect

Boys are up on the latest: Men are down with the GREATEST.”

The truest difference between the man and the boy: The man is aiming at a goal; the boy is drifting aimlessly. - Author Unknown.

When I have a man like this, who’d take me by charge and lead me in life rather than just telling me that i have problems and he cant do anything about it, i’m sure you guys get which i’d rather be with

The moment I’ve found a man, he’d be the one i’d settle down with and have a future with him.